Tuesday 22 January 2013

The most important '"f words"

Three "f words", I am sure you are all thinking of the vulgar "f words'. No - it's none of those words, so get your minf out of the gutter.

These three words are the ones we really cannot do without and the moment they are not in our lives - we sure do miss them.

The three words are Family, Friends and Fun. We all need to interact with family, friends or have some fun to get through the day. Without at least one of these in a particular day then it wont be a fulfulling day.

We have all have days when we are feeling down and just a call from a friend or family member can cheer us up. For example, I am a 25 year old female who is single and unemplyed. Though this is a rather tough phase to go through, my three "f words"fill my life with joy.

Sometimes I dont even feel like getting out of bed in the morning but just hearing my mom's voice and knowing that she genuinely cares about sigle, unemployed me is just the energy-boost I need to keep going. Looking at photos of my nieces and nephews keeps the temptation of depression away.

On days when the family "f word" won't do the trick of cheering me up then I know that all I need do is dial-a-buddy. My awesome friends are the people I know I can call on to cry when I feel hurt or down for whatever reason. These are the people who tell me I am beautiful even though the tears have caused my eyeliner to run and I have boogers in my nose from crying so long. Some days we find joy in watching a movie or having ice-cream. Somedays it's dogging out an ex-boyfriend.

The best days though are when we dress up and paint the town all shades of red. Dancing until the clubs close, doing the get-down until our feet can't take it anymore, laughing at men's lousy pick-up lines - oh what FUN.

The "f words"we need in life are not limited to these but these three: Family, Friends and Fun are the most important to me. Just having an encounter with one of these moments is great but having all three of them wrapped into one moment is AWESOME.

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